The longest running social sciences study in history, which ran for 80 years, discovered the best gift for all kids: GIVING! The study proved that giving is the key to a healthy and happy life.
All parents want their kids to be healthy and happy. The means to this end varies by culture, generations, family values, and income level.
Often in our society, parents try to make their kids happy by giving them things. Things, things, and more things. This happiness has the life span of a temporary tattoo. It wears off in about a week.
So, how do we help our kids find more enduring happiness? Develop their love of giving.
I first learned this lesson as a small child. I would be so excited to give my parents that special something that I didn’t want to keep it a secret for even a moment. I couldn’t contain my excitement!
Giving is still a high priority for me. I give blood. I give time. I give food. I give love. I give advice. I give money.
My kids are beginning to take note and question my motives. I want them to understand. I want them to feel similarly motivated.
Giving and money often go hand-in-hand. Time for a new series!
I’ll share my approach to teaching kids about both in upcoming posts. I’ll discuss mindful ways to share money with our children and teach the importance of giving, saving, and spending.
I’ll even share some concepts you might not have thought about. For example, I’ll introduce some surprising theories about allowances. I’ll also offer some useful tips to begin getting your child familiar with the intricacies of money.
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If you have tackled this issue already, please share your stories. How did you introduce money?
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